How do you become your self? What's that all about? There are patterns in Nature which, although we can't see them, we know are there. Each of us is similarly a pattern, designed to correspond to the bigger picture. Becoming who we are must be a journey into the unknown … into a pattern that is there, but hasn't happened yet.It is so monumentally arrogant to assume we are the only kind of intelligence in the universe. Conscious life of all kinds is surely waiting for us to stop acting like children, waiting to be told what to do. One at a time, we need to grow up and get on with it.We are genetically designed to live an absolutely unique life ... we all benefit that way, in the long run.