In GodChicks and the Men They Love, Holly and her husband, Philip, offer couples seeking to live up to their full, God - intended potential a guide for growing together into all they are meant to be. Philip writes that ''men need to do what only men can do so that women will be empowered to do what only women can do.'' Together, men and women can accomplish what seems impossible! But doing the extraordinary starts with everyday acknowledgement and respect of each others unique gifts, abilities and perspective. GodChicks and the Men They Love shows couples how to be allies rather than adversaries, making them unstoppable in their God - centered life together.