This book is intended to act as a guide, not a "follow this path and all will be well" roadmap. There are as many routes to the objective (safety and sanity) as there are families taking the journey. Just as you plan a trip, Slepner hopes to help you plan your path through your relative's older years. Looking at the map to plan your route and to check for alternate pathways is an excellent way to be sure that your trip is as smooth as possible. Planning for your family's older years will have much the same outcome if you take the time to plan for the journey and anticipate obstacles you may face along the way.