Having found the answer to the question posed by her book, Who Would I Be If I Weren't So Afraid?, Ginger Grancagnolo, Ed D, teaches us how to do the same thing ourselves. The author describes seemingly endless years that she has spent struggling with paralyzing fear to help others comfort our own insecurities and anxieties. Through comprehensive analyses of the different kinds of relationships in which we engage and of the various models through which we define ourselves, she emphasizes that even the most fearful among us can escape from the psychological obstacles that prevent us from leading healthy lives. The simple exercises that she provides enable us to regain our self-worth and to discover the tools we need in facing intimidating environments. Who Would I Be If I Weren't So Afraid? is beneficial to anyone who knows what it is like to be a victim of fear.
What happens when one door closes and we wait for the next one to open? Can we ever really be prepared for the changes that accompany any lifetime? Sometimes we are aware and sometimes not. Endings and exits are a deep part of our development process, which includes changing locations, schools, partners and relationships, careers, and the ultimate change of losing a loved one. Even though ending and exits can be difficult, a new beginning is always promised. The process of moving from one phase to the next is an essential core lesson that can make every experience either a life wound or a life victory. The purpose of this writing is to review our own personal life’s journey with awareness and healing strategies so that every ending and new beginning can be reevaluated to the highest value possible. Regardless of when a significant change occurred, the point of power is always in the present. Now is the time to embrace all the changes so personal healing and victory can lead the way to every tomorrow.
How do you pray? Do you say the words already written in a book? Do you stumble over the text hoping to grasp the meaning? And do those words touch your heart in a way that sometimes can be beyond what words can express? I believe the power of prayer is both in the meaning and the emotion that comes from a stirring in the soul. Prayer is the private exchange between God and us. It can happen at any time. Prayer ignites through our desire to connect to Divine Love and Wisdom and is fueled by the Holy Spirit Who lives within us.
Have you ever noticed a certain something inside as you’ve casually said, “This is my father,” “Wait til you meet my father,” “Not my Dad” “He/She reminds me of my father”? If you were to freeze frame those common moments, maybe you would hear your inner dialogue and notice a flash of feelings that you thought you didn’t have or that you finally remembered. These moments can be so subtle, quiet and brief, yet their effects can profoundly linger. These moments can transport you back in time as if you stepped into your childhood while looking at a family photo. Sometimes this shift can be an oasis for the heart and a clearing for the mind. And of course, an ordinary dad flashback can rip through your soul like an attacker’s knife. The point to be made here is not whether your father tales are pleasant or painful, but rather that they remained, influenced, and shaped you. An even deeper point is that there is a father Principle in everyone that is certain as the energy of Dad’s DNA, and that it was meant to teach you, stir you and empower you regardless of the quality of the relationship you and your father you and your father had – if you know how to feel it, use it and know it’s real truth. This book is about releasing the hidden jewels your father relationship meant for you to inherit, and to give you a new choice about whom you can be. Having been enriched by an innovative understanding about Dad’s genes, habits, and your relationship with him, you can become father to your-self; able to re-create you into the highest version of your highest vision through everyday circumstances. The interesting phenomenon about this seemingly impossible miracle is that your biological father and/father – figures do not have to be aware of their influence in order for you to tap into the buried treasures all dads inherently give us. The reason for this is the care of this work. It is called the Father Principle. The Father Principle is an energetic blueprint, embedded in the inner consciousness in everyone. It is a major archetype. An archetype is like a code or a bionic “chip” that holds pure facts. The Father Principle “chip” carries every detail pertinent to the father universal law of energy. This law gives guidelines about the power to go out into the world successfully, to be somebody and do something that may leave a signature of goodness in your name. All of us are already “coded” to potentially to know this. The relationship with biological fathers and father-figures “triggers” this potential and for better or worse, Dad strikes the chip. What happens after that is up to each individual choice. Good or bad memories, forgotten or blocked, this book invites you to take a remarkable journey; to perhaps laugh or cry, but mostly to rebuild and get into the world more powerfully certain of your-SELF than every before.
Some days can seem just ordinary. We awaken at a designated time with a head full of tasks, have-to and what ifs. We might check our phones and devices, getting info for the day that ranges from the weather, stocks, politics, and messages to “Alexa, turn on the coffee pot.” Somehow, this probable routine has become normal. Somehow, this may be how we prepare for an ordinary day with the intent that we might be ready and safe to greet the day with some level of pleasure and success. All this actually sounds reasonable. However, it only takes one traffic jam one late bus, one unexpected phone call, one breaking news alert, and this seemingly reliable system can easily crumble into dust carrying all positive goals and expectations with it. We would falter into distractions, upsets, frustrations and fatigue before noon, because of “something” or “someone” that knocks us off our purposed day and all without warning. Uncertainty bubbles up everywhere. Local and global news are filled with violence and upheaval on a regular basis. We are bombarded by the media on all our tech devices, and we now are even further conflicted with what has been phrased “Fake news.” We have access 24/7 to split-second, ongoing information, yet we don’t really know what is valid and what isn’t. We may feel the media, government, philosophies, dreams, goals and faith have all failed us. Whom or what can we trust? We do our best to analyze, understand the rapid pace of present lives, and somewhere deep inside we perhaps all want similar goals. We desire peace, prosperity, healthy bodies and relationships, and the opportunity to make some dreams come true personally and professionally. It all sounds reasonable. However, the biggest challenge may be how to bridge what we desire from inside our hearts with a world outside that feels often unsafe, biased and unfair. If we have ever tried to make clear sense of our lives, we probably have said, or even shouted, “Where are you, Lord?” Regardless of the mood we were in, asking or praying this plea may have mostly resulted in more quiet tears and confusion. I say this from my own experience. In fact, this missive is the result of my own confusion, pain and earnest desire to know the truth of God on a daily basis. I used one guiding Light based on one single truth: “Seek first the Kingdom of God, and all things will be given to you as well.” (Matthew 6:33) I wanted to know and feel a reliable relationship with God that was not slanted by my ego needs or imagination. I wanted to trust His truth, and then be guided to live with a practical spirituality that was rooted in joy, love, peace and wisdom that could serve everyone. This book is my personal encounter. It is not meant to be blindly accepted or rejected only shared. Each reader is encouraged to find his/her own way, so to speak. These pages are meant to provide a practical way to hear the inner Voice that is within all of us and to learn how to trust it and follow it. This inner Voice is always a gentle whisper of love and peace. It is steady and unwavering. It is reliable. It is permanent.
Where’s your Joy been lately? Does it feel gone, forgotten or just misplaced? As we watch ourselves more through daily task, day after day, often the only moment of brightness can be described as a brief sigh because we finally got stuff do ne. We can plan celebrations and vacations which can be great, yet somewhere deep inside it can still feel like the JOY button has gotten jammed due to the pressures of everyday life. So is this as good as it is gets? Wouldn’t it be great to find our way back to REAL JOY as a way of living? Could this be possible or is it just wishful thinking? REAL JOY is always available! We have been created to experience JOY as a natural part of our life. This book is designed to guide us back into finding our internal JOY switch as well as how to keep it functioning to the best capacity. REAL JOY is available all the time and chapter by chapter a pathway will be presented so we can easily reclaim REAL JOY so that we can live to the fullest. The time is NOW! It’s time to feel really alive and JOY-ful again!
This book is a journey program to all the seekers of the Light; for those who continuously search for the truth and the peace of God. May we continue to persevere, for God's Love is a Holy Promise, no matter what.
Some days can seem just ordinary. We awaken at a designated time with a head full of tasks, have-to and what ifs. We might check our phones and devices, getting info for the day that ranges from the weather, stocks, politics, and messages to “Alexa, turn on the coffee pot.” Somehow, this probable routine has become normal. Somehow, this may be how we prepare for an ordinary day with the intent that we might be ready and safe to greet the day with some level of pleasure and success. All this actually sounds reasonable. However, it only takes one traffic jam one late bus, one unexpected phone call, one breaking news alert, and this seemingly reliable system can easily crumble into dust carrying all positive goals and expectations with it. We would falter into distractions, upsets, frustrations and fatigue before noon, because of “something” or “someone” that knocks us off our purposed day and all without warning. Uncertainty bubbles up everywhere. Local and global news are filled with violence and upheaval on a regular basis. We are bombarded by the media on all our tech devices, and we now are even further conflicted with what has been phrased “Fake news.” We have access 24/7 to split-second, ongoing information, yet we don’t really know what is valid and what isn’t. We may feel the media, government, philosophies, dreams, goals and faith have all failed us. Whom or what can we trust? We do our best to analyze, understand the rapid pace of present lives, and somewhere deep inside we perhaps all want similar goals. We desire peace, prosperity, healthy bodies and relationships, and the opportunity to make some dreams come true personally and professionally. It all sounds reasonable. However, the biggest challenge may be how to bridge what we desire from inside our hearts with a world outside that feels often unsafe, biased and unfair. If we have ever tried to make clear sense of our lives, we probably have said, or even shouted, “Where are you, Lord?” Regardless of the mood we were in, asking or praying this plea may have mostly resulted in more quiet tears and confusion. I say this from my own experience. In fact, this missive is the result of my own confusion, pain and earnest desire to know the truth of God on a daily basis. I used one guiding Light based on one single truth: “Seek first the Kingdom of God, and all things will be given to you as well.” (Matthew 6:33) I wanted to know and feel a reliable relationship with God that was not slanted by my ego needs or imagination. I wanted to trust His truth, and then be guided to live with a practical spirituality that was rooted in joy, love, peace and wisdom that could serve everyone. This book is my personal encounter. It is not meant to be blindly accepted or rejected only shared. Each reader is encouraged to find his/her own way, so to speak. These pages are meant to provide a practical way to hear the inner Voice that is within all of us and to learn how to trust it and follow it. This inner Voice is always a gentle whisper of love and peace. It is steady and unwavering. It is reliable. It is permanent.
Having found the answer to the question posed by her book, Who Would I Be If I Weren't So Afraid?, Ginger Grancagnolo, Ed D, teaches us how to do the same thing ourselves. The author describes seemingly endless years that she has spent struggling with paralyzing fear to help others comfort our own insecurities and anxieties. Through comprehensive analyses of the different kinds of relationships in which we engage and of the various models through which we define ourselves, she emphasizes that even the most fearful among us can escape from the psychological obstacles that prevent us from leading healthy lives. The simple exercises that she provides enable us to regain our self-worth and to discover the tools we need in facing intimidating environments. Who Would I Be If I Weren't So Afraid? is beneficial to anyone who knows what it is like to be a victim of fear.
How do you pray? Do you say the words already written in a book? Do you stumble over the text hoping to grasp the meaning? And do those words touch your heart in a way that sometimes can be beyond what words can express? I believe the power of prayer is both in the meaning and the emotion that comes from a stirring in the soul. Prayer is the private exchange between God and us. It can happen at any time. Prayer ignites through our desire to connect to Divine Love and Wisdom and is fueled by the Holy Spirit Who lives within us.
What happens when one door closes and we wait for the next one to open? Can we ever really be prepared for the changes that accompany any lifetime? Sometimes we are aware and sometimes not. Endings and exits are a deep part of our development process, which includes changing locations, schools, partners and relationships, careers, and the ultimate change of losing a loved one. Even though ending and exits can be difficult, a new beginning is always promised. The process of moving from one phase to the next is an essential core lesson that can make every experience either a life wound or a life victory. The purpose of this writing is to review our own personal life’s journey with awareness and healing strategies so that every ending and new beginning can be reevaluated to the highest value possible. Regardless of when a significant change occurred, the point of power is always in the present. Now is the time to embrace all the changes so personal healing and victory can lead the way to every tomorrow.
Where’s your Joy been lately? Does it feel gone, forgotten or just misplaced? As we watch ourselves more through daily task, day after day, often the only moment of brightness can be described as a brief sigh because we finally got stuff do ne. We can plan celebrations and vacations which can be great, yet somewhere deep inside it can still feel like the JOY button has gotten jammed due to the pressures of everyday life. So is this as good as it is gets? Wouldn’t it be great to find our way back to REAL JOY as a way of living? Could this be possible or is it just wishful thinking? REAL JOY is always available! We have been created to experience JOY as a natural part of our life. This book is designed to guide us back into finding our internal JOY switch as well as how to keep it functioning to the best capacity. REAL JOY is available all the time and chapter by chapter a pathway will be presented so we can easily reclaim REAL JOY so that we can live to the fullest. The time is NOW! It’s time to feel really alive and JOY-ful again!
This book is a journey program to all the seekers of the Light; for those who continuously search for the truth and the peace of God. May we continue to persevere, for God's Love is a Holy Promise, no matter what.
Have you ever noticed a certain something inside as you’ve casually said, “This is my father,” “Wait til you meet my father,” “Not my Dad” “He/She reminds me of my father”? If you were to freeze frame those common moments, maybe you would hear your inner dialogue and notice a flash of feelings that you thought you didn’t have or that you finally remembered. These moments can be so subtle, quiet and brief, yet their effects can profoundly linger. These moments can transport you back in time as if you stepped into your childhood while looking at a family photo. Sometimes this shift can be an oasis for the heart and a clearing for the mind. And of course, an ordinary dad flashback can rip through your soul like an attacker’s knife. The point to be made here is not whether your father tales are pleasant or painful, but rather that they remained, influenced, and shaped you. An even deeper point is that there is a father Principle in everyone that is certain as the energy of Dad’s DNA, and that it was meant to teach you, stir you and empower you regardless of the quality of the relationship you and your father you and your father had – if you know how to feel it, use it and know it’s real truth. This book is about releasing the hidden jewels your father relationship meant for you to inherit, and to give you a new choice about whom you can be. Having been enriched by an innovative understanding about Dad’s genes, habits, and your relationship with him, you can become father to your-self; able to re-create you into the highest version of your highest vision through everyday circumstances. The interesting phenomenon about this seemingly impossible miracle is that your biological father and/father – figures do not have to be aware of their influence in order for you to tap into the buried treasures all dads inherently give us. The reason for this is the care of this work. It is called the Father Principle. The Father Principle is an energetic blueprint, embedded in the inner consciousness in everyone. It is a major archetype. An archetype is like a code or a bionic “chip” that holds pure facts. The Father Principle “chip” carries every detail pertinent to the father universal law of energy. This law gives guidelines about the power to go out into the world successfully, to be somebody and do something that may leave a signature of goodness in your name. All of us are already “coded” to potentially to know this. The relationship with biological fathers and father-figures “triggers” this potential and for better or worse, Dad strikes the chip. What happens after that is up to each individual choice. Good or bad memories, forgotten or blocked, this book invites you to take a remarkable journey; to perhaps laugh or cry, but mostly to rebuild and get into the world more powerfully certain of your-SELF than every before.
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