My life was hard, and I had no love. That is what I always longed for so much, love-the real heartfelt kind of love, with hugs and kisses. So a lot of the time I daydreamed and pretended. I was the great pretender long before the song came out! As I sit here, my mind wanders back in time...' Come along on the journey as Frankie Oberlechner shares the tale of Charlea, a woman whose life was never easy, often terrible, but always blessed with joyous moments and God's protection. Charlea is looking back on her life and noticing something important-God has always been there for her. As a child, she found herself needing to act like a grown-up. Her mama and daddy were always drinking away the money. She had to act like a mother for her sister's children when she was only a child herself. Her daddy was abusive, threatening their very lives at times. But Charlea had her grandmother, whose home was a safe haven where she learned about God's love. There life was easier...until her grandmother passed away. Then it seemed as though Charlea would never find the light again. True friends were hard to come by, until she met Lin and June. Soon after she met Ben, they married, despite the fact that no one liked him. She thought life would be different, but Ben proved to be much like her daddy-an abusive alcoholic. As Charlea grew into a woman, she had many ups and downs. Charlea was caught in a terrible web-but then she was reintroduced to God, and things began to change. Join Charlea as she discovers the love she has always longed for and that Life Is Built around If.