In this book Kornhaber and Woodward explore the vital connections which link generations to each other and expose a new social contract that destroys the emotional bonds between grandparents and grandchildren., This is the first book which reviews, in a careful ethnographic manner, the relationship of grandchildren to grandparents and the place of love at one end and abandonment at the other by grandparents. The authors probe the deep, unexplored emotional histories of hundreds of grandparents; how they feel about themselves, their grandchildren, and their loss of function within today's nuclear family., With sharp increases in the number of broken families and working mothers, grandparents are more vital than ever and also more available than ever. This basic research document shows how grandparents recover their natural role as elders of the family and of society. The author's basic premise is that to exist is to be connected, and that no matter how grandparents act, they affect the emotional well-being of their grandchildren, for better or for worse, simply because they exist., In an age when mounting economic and social pressures make it increasingly easier to split a family than to sustain one, the authors alert us to a forgotten source of family strength, the power of grandparents to enrich the lives as a whole. The case studies reported in this volume represent a first effort in an area left unexplored by developmental researchers. There are lessons here for social scientists, but even more for our alienated society.—Urie Bronfenbrenner, Cornell University
From "the Dr. Spock of grandparenting" (NBC Tom Brokaw), the definitive guide to coping with the challenges of modern grandparentingThe American family has undergone profound structural changes over the past few decades. In a world of inter-racial, inter-religious, inter-ethnic marriages, divorce and remarriage, single, step, and alternative families, adoptions, surrogacy, in vitro fertilization...many of today's healthy, vibrant, and long-lived, baby boomer grandparents feel overwhelmed--stranded without a road map. Written by the man who "started the grandparent revolution in America" (CBS Dan Rather), The Grandparent Guide offers them such a map, and much more. The Grandparent Guide is a reference, guide, and a complete education for readers struggling with the challenges of modern grandparenting. Based on Dr. Kornhaber's more than thirty years of research and clinical studies, it supplies the expert advice and guidance grandparents need to stay ahead of the curve of social change. It features an abundance of thoroughly cross-referenced topics of vital concern to grandparents and other family members. Directly and accessibly, in a warm, witty voice, Dr. Kornhaber offers readers professional, practical, and well as anecdotal information that they can apply immediately to "enhance the positive, and eliminate the negative" in their personal lives. He also steers readers to a gold mine of valuable resources, including books, support groups, and websites, including his own www.grandparenting.org website where readers can access the latest research and resources, breaking news, details on recent grandparent and family-related issues, legislation, and more. Arthur Kornhaber, (MD Ojai, CA) is a child and family psychiatrist, clinician, researcher, and medical writer. As the President and Founder of the Foundation for Grandparenting and the author of six books on the topic, he is the foremost expert on grandparenting. As a primary news source for grandparenting information, he is quoted routinely in leading newspapers and magazines, consults with government, non-profit and academic institutions, and has advised Congress and the White House on family and grandparenting issues.
Rosie Flores is returning to her home in Santa Rosita for the summer. She has a problem--she is in love with Jon, a doctor who is temporarily working at the town medical clinic. The problem is that Jon is an "outsider," a "gringo," and of a different religion, so without a miracle, there is no chance that her family will ever accept him.
Accessible and appealing, Contemporary Grandparenting begins in a way that immediately involves the reader in a personal way. The material included is highly engaging, written with many examples to support the theory and research. I have seen nothing that comes close to this important contribution. The research and real-life 'stories' make the work particularly valuable for a wide range of audiences. As an author, Arthur Kornhaber speaks to our hearts as well as our minds as he brings his intellectual points to life." --Carol Tice, Lifespan Resources, Inc., Ann Arbor, Michigan "I enthusiastically recommend this eminently readable book for anyone of any generation. Contemporary Grandparenting is especially appropriate for the cynics who, like some poets, in moments of despair, describe old age as 'no place for old people.' . . . Arthur Kornhaber conveys best, if not beautifully, grandparents' most wonderful side. . . . This book is a treasury of information that has been mined from the long tunnels the author has explored.
The time has come to talk about spirit. Here's why. A disturbing paradox is affecting a great many of us: The more that we learn, the less we seem to know. The more intellectually "smart" we become, the less we seem to be able to handle these "smarts." The more natural mysteries that we uncover, the more confused we are about ourselves, the more frightened we are about juggling the hot potatoes of new knowledge, and the more helpless and bewildered we seem to be about what to do with all that we learn. All this new "know-how" that mankind has acquired just doesn't seem to make people happier. Why is this? It's because we have unknowingly made a trade-off. In the course of our single-minded and relentless pursuit of intellectual and technical knowledge, we have become intellectually polarized - a half minded people who increasingly ignore the part of our minds that provides hopes and dreams, romance and love, altruism and wonder. We voluntarily relinquished the humane and spiritual in favor of the tangible material benefits offered by the immediate everyday world. And in doing so, we have neglected the best part of ourselves. We have become halfminded - intellectually knowledgeable but at the same time more spiritually ignorant. This is the paradox. .....from Dr.Arthur Kornhaber
Offers America's 60 milllion grandparents advice on how to connect with their grandchildren and provides them with concrete solutions for overcoming the problems that arise from grandparenting in the 1990s. "A warm, wise, invaluable book on the challenge of grandparenting now."--Stan and Jan Berenstain.
Describing the roles of parents, grandparents, and children, this book, based on the idea that involvement of grandparents with grandchildren is vital to the emotional well-being of most children, confronts such difficulties and problems as long-distanceg
Accessible and appealing, Contemporary Grandparenting begins in a way that immediately involves the reader in a personal way. The material included is highly engaging, written with many examples to support the theory and research. I have seen nothing that comes close to this important contribution. The research and real-life 'stories' make the work particularly valuable for a wide range of audiences. As an author, Arthur Kornhaber speaks to our hearts as well as our minds as he brings his intellectual points to life." --Carol Tice, Lifespan Resources, Inc., Ann Arbor, Michigan "I enthusiastically recommend this eminently readable book for anyone of any generation. Contemporary Grandparenting is especially appropriate for the cynics who, like some poets, in moments of despair, describe old age as 'no place for old people.' . . . Arthur Kornhaber conveys best, if not beautifully, grandparents' most wonderful side. . . . This book is a treasury of information that has been mined from the long tunnels the author has explored.
In this book Kornhaber and Woodward explore the vital connections which link generations to each other and expose a new social contract that destroys the emotional bonds between grandparents and grandchildren., This is the first book which reviews, in a careful ethnographic manner, the relationship of grandchildren to grandparents and the place of love at one end and abandonment at the other by grandparents. The authors probe the deep, unexplored emotional histories of hundreds of grandparents; how they feel about themselves, their grandchildren, and their loss of function within today's nuclear family., With sharp increases in the number of broken families and working mothers, grandparents are more vital than ever and also more available than ever. This basic research document shows how grandparents recover their natural role as elders of the family and of society. The author's basic premise is that to exist is to be connected, and that no matter how grandparents act, they affect the emotional well-being of their grandchildren, for better or for worse, simply because they exist., In an age when mounting economic and social pressures make it increasingly easier to split a family than to sustain one, the authors alert us to a forgotten source of family strength, the power of grandparents to enrich the lives as a whole. The case studies reported in this volume represent a first effort in an area left unexplored by developmental researchers. There are lessons here for social scientists, but even more for our alienated society.—Urie Bronfenbrenner, Cornell University
Rosie Flores, 23, a graduate student at the University of New Mexico is returning to her home in Santa Rosita for the summer. She has a problem. Her town is peopled by her xenophobic, but lovable, churchgoing family, the native Americans she grew up with, and radical separatists who allow no "outsiders" (except revenue-producing tourists) to enter their area. Rosie must tell her family members that she is in love with Jon, a doctor who is temporarily working at the town medical clinic. The problem is that Jon is an "outsider," a "gringo," and of a different religion. There is no chance that her family will ever accept him. As one of her friends puts it, Rosie “needs a miracle” to solve her seemingly impossible problem. Her prayers are answered when, after a terrible flood, an object arises from the ground of the old church cemetery. After the object is examined by the town priest, the Elder of the Santa Rosita pueblo and the Alcalde of the town, they receive a stunning surprise that turns the town topsy-turvy; nothing they believe is as it seems. Rosie smiles. What do the people do with this revelation? ARTHUR KORNHABER, MD, psychiatrist, author, and foremost expert on the relationships between the generations frequently appears in the media. He is the author of seven books, six on the topic of grandparenting. During the 1990s, Dr. Kornhaber worked with Native American and Hispanic populations in Northern New Mexico to apply "Grandparent Power," using the influence of Elders to create a modern, culturally-sensitive, mental healthcare system for the young, and to enhance their ability to learn what their local Elders have to teach concerning culture and legacy. During his time there, he became aware of a well-hidden secret. This personal discovery moved him to write his first novel, Rosie's Miracle.
Offers America's 60 milllion grandparents advice on how to connect with their grandchildren and provides them with concrete solutions for overcoming the problems that arise from grandparenting in the 1990s. "A warm, wise, invaluable book on the challenge of grandparenting now."--Stan and Jan Berenstain.
In this book, a renowned historian of education searches out the lessons that private schooling might offer public education as cries for school reform grow louder. Arthur Powell uses the experience of private education to put the whole schooling enterprise in fresh perspective. He shows how the sense of schools as special communities can help instill passion and commitment in teachers, administrators, and students alike - and how passion and commitment are absolutely necessary for educational success. The power of economic resources, invested fully in schools, also becomes pointedly clear here, as does the value of incentives for teachers and students.
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